“My answer is always this: if it takes you this long to orgasm, let it take you this long to orgasm!”
Elena is the creator and author of The Yoni Empire. She is a Slow Sex and Pleasure Educator, a sex researcher, writer and lover of all things pleasure-related. She writes shamelessly about female sexuality and eroticism. A self-proclaimed Pussy Whisperer, Elena is the co-founder of Onna Lifestyle brand which designs natural gemstone pleasure toys for women. She is on a mission to nourish women, one orgasm at a time – connecting heart, body and mind.

In this interview Caitlin and Elena talk about

– Why we should forget about the race to orgasm and slow down in our pleasure

– Why we should cut the grandiose spiritual rituals around sexuality and keep it simple (and why Netflix and hands-down-pants is OKAY)

– How true sexual empowerment is choosing what works for YOU (no BDSM, casual sex, open relationships or sex parties required if it’s not your thing)

And a tonne of other questions you’ve probably wondered and been too scared to ask.